Why?

I really don't want a shower. My bridal shower was awesome, but stressful. I don't like being the center of attention and I got married so recently I would feel terrible asking people to buy me gifts again so soon. My real friends have accepted this. My annoying non-friends have not. I just received the following email.

Hey.

I wanted to let you know that XXXX, your stalker friend, called me about throwing you a surprise shower. I told her that you were quite adamant about not wanting to have a shower for various reasons. She thinks that you are just being coy. Have you guys met? When I tried to explain that this is not the situation she started in about how you are being selfish because other people want to celebrate your pregnancy. I don't know how you want me to respond to her. Anyway I wanted to give you a heads up. I don't think that she has set anything or has anyone else conscripted.

Cya
-x

I just don't understand this